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Which is to be clear when people say something and I don't hear that and I'm like,

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sorry what? And they're like, don't worry about it. And I'm like, I'm worrying about it. I'm

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worrying about it now. That makes, as someone who's like high anxiety, ADHD, that I relate to that.

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Because like you normally don't hear what people have to say right away. And then you

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thought you could, you said it initially. And then you like, you're, you're, you're,

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you're trying to communicate to them. I care about what you said and I really want to hear it. I

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didn't mean to not hear it. And then they, and then they say, ah, never mind. And you're now

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all of a sudden you're like worried like, oh, now they think I hate their guts. Right. And but the weakness of this, of course, is that sometimes you say something and you're like,

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ah, I shouldn't have said that. And then you like, don't want to repeat it because you're like,

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if I can avoid putting that out in the universe, I will. And now we're putting pressure on them to

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do that regardless. In those situations, I will, I will go out of my way and say, actually, I kind

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of regret what I said. I didn't think I worded it well. But not everyone is as eloquent as you,