Which is to be clear when people say something and I don't hear that and I'm like,
sorry what? And they're like, don't worry about it. And I'm like, I'm worrying about it. I'm
worrying about it now. That makes, as someone who's like high anxiety, ADHD, that I relate to that.
Because like you normally don't hear what people have to say right away. And then you
thought you could, you said it initially. And then you like, you're, you're, you're,
you're trying to communicate to them. I care about what you said and I really want to hear it. I
didn't mean to not hear it. And then they, and then they say, ah, never mind. And you're now
all of a sudden you're like worried like, oh, now they think I hate their guts. Right. And but the weakness of this, of course, is that sometimes you say something and you're like,
ah, I shouldn't have said that. And then you like, don't want to repeat it because you're like,
if I can avoid putting that out in the universe, I will. And now we're putting pressure on them to
do that regardless. In those situations, I will, I will go out of my way and say, actually, I kind
of regret what I said. I didn't think I worded it well. But not everyone is as eloquent as you,